It’s a question most of us in a relationship have ask ourselves at one time or another, happily in most cases we will be mistaken but what are the signs to look for that may mean our husband, wife, partner, boyfriend, girlfriend may be cheating. Please note that these things do not necessarily mean your other half is being unfaithful and this list should only be used as a guide.
- Have their grooming habits changed, are they spending a lot more time than previously in front of a mirror?
- Are they suddenly concerned about their looks and appearance?
- Are they suddenly having extra meetings at work?
- Do they come in late an head straight for the computer?
- Do you get the feeling they’ve gone off you?
- Has your lover started avoiding physical contact with you?
- Are there unusual spending habits on their credit card bills or joint account?
- Have they started getting texts or phone calls are then acting differently?
- Have you find you need to fuel up the car more often or the mileage is rising faster than previously?
- You’ve had a lot of silent calls to your land-line or your partner keeps getting calls that turn out to be the wrong number when they are with you?
- Your partner joins a gym and goes on a diet.
- They suddenly become hard to reach, their mobile is turned off or out of range more than normal.
- You find condoms in your home when you never use them or do not use that brand.
- Thy suddenly get defensive when you ask about their new regime.
A reverse-engineering manifesto for would-be Lotharios and Jezebels!
Seriously, makes for interesting reading, although the silent calls bit I get all the time, owing to those dreadful telesales companies asking you to get an IVA several times a week. Or is it?
Thought-provoking stuff. Guess, I’d better stuff my face with pizza and stop going to the gym; never looked in the mirror – always been an ugly b******!
Sounds like you have a really interesting job.